Book Review: Not Tonight, I'm Tired

This book can be read in about 30 minutes time but is worth the 99 Cents that it costs.  It doesn't say this in so many words, but the underlying message is that if things aren't going well in your marriage don't focus on what the other person is doing wrong, or not doing, focus on yourself and what you can do to make things better.  It's easy to finger point in order justify our own lack of action.  A quote that's been going around Facebook says, "It's not the problem that is the problem. It's your attitude about the problem that is the problem. Understand?"  Hits home for me. How about you?