Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Marsha's Musings: New Year's Eve Muse

It's New Year' Eve.

I don't think I will be celebrating with everyone else. I am sick with a sinus infection and bad chest cold.

My kids will go celebrate with their friends at a church celebration. My husband and I will stay home and take it easy. Well, sort of. Since the computer will be freed up where I keep the school records, I will spend about an hour catching up the grading and getting assignments ready for next week. THEN, I will rest.

I might spend some time reflecting on last year and thinking about what I would like to accomplish next year. I don't do resolutions because that sets me up for failure and frustration. Instead I just want to set some goals to reach for, break them down into bite-size chunks and press on.

I might spend some time reading and dreaming over MaryJane's Outpost book that my dear husband gave me for Christmas or I might borrow the book I gave him for Christmas for a while tonight...Weird Washington...it's got some interesting stories just for fun.

At any rate this "we" will not be staying up until midnight like so many other die-hards around our nation. I might sleep on the couch until my kids get home, but I don't think I'll be staying awake until then.

So what kind of goals do I think I might set?
  1. I'd like to read the Bible through again from cover to cover and write down what stands out to me in my devotional journal and write out my prayers.
  2. I'd like to be more diligent in teaching my children to cook and clean and be more self-sufficient.
  3. I'd like to be more regular in exercising.
  4. I'd like to spend more quality time with my husband.
  5. I'd like to be more frugal in my spending.
  6. I'd like to de-clutter more of my house and make it more organized so we don't lose so many items.

There are many more things I could add to my list, but I am keeping down to six items so I don't overwhelm myself too much and quit.

So, what is the difference between goals and resolutions? Here's what I think:

  • Resolutions are statements of what you intend to accomplish in the next 12 months. They don't give you any flex room for unexpected circumstances of life. Once you fall off the wagon, it's easy to throw up your hands in despair and quit. Resolutions put undue pressure on you to perform on schedule. You said you'd accomplish it in 2009 and by golly, you're a failure if you don't manage it!
  • Goals, on the other hand, are things you want to aim for, but if the circumstances of life knock you off the wagon, that's OK. You just get up, dust yourself off, get back on the wagon keep pressing on. You can set a target date by which you would like to accomplish it, but you can be flexible if you have to and move the date further out if needed. It doesn't matter how slow you go, just so long as you don't quit.

Marsha's Musings: Opening a Can of Worms Here

I am going to open a can of worms here. I read a lot about "religious tolerance and interfaith dialogue" these days. I would like to know what my readers think this means? It seems to be a hot pototoe in the political and religious arena. I have my thoughts about what the statement means, but in the interest of hearing what others have to say about it and not what they think about what I think it means, I am going to hold my fire. I want to hear your thoughts.

My Keyboard Stand

I was given money for Christmas and I wanted to spend it on something useful. I have a keyboard that I have not practiced in a long, long time because I have not had a good place to put it nor a decent stand to put it on. Two bar stools are not very sturdy for a keyboard. So it has been moved from place to place, standing on it's end most often in a corner somewhere. So with the money I got for Christmas, I bought a sturdy keyboard stand. Now I am excited because I can sit down and practice whenever I want too. I have a goal. I want to learn to play at least four church hymns well, so that if our church pianist has to be gone for some reason, I can step in with my four songs and the congregation can have piano accompaniment.
I sat down and started working on one hymn. The keyboard has a record feature. Well, I thought I was doing pretty good with this hymn, so I recorded myself playing it. When I played it back and tried to sing through the words with it, it was so painful!!!! It's a good thing I am using headphones when I practice. My poor family would go crazy if they had to listen to me struggle through that music! Goodness! I have such a long ways to go!

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Gluten Free Pumpkin Pie

I love Pumpkin Pie, but never make it because of the pie crust issue. I could never find a pie crust that was gluten free and easy to make. Well, I found the recipe below at About.com Vegetarian Food Gluten-Free Pie Crust Recipe
This is for a one crust pie:
1/2 Cup shortening (I use coconut oil because my husband has soy allergies)
1 1/2 Cups rice flour
4 Tbsp cold water

Cut shortening into rice flour until a crumb like texture forms. Add water. Work dough with hands until soft and form a ball. (I didn't do that last step. I just dumped it in the pie pan and used a small pastry roller to press the dough down and up the sides of the pie plate)

Place dough in 8 inch pie pan and press it into the bottom and sides of pie pan.

Use fork to prick the bottom of the crust to prevent buckling.

If you want a precooked crust, bake for 12 to 15 minutes, or until edges are golden brown.

For the pumpkin pie, you don't want to precook your crust.
Here is the filling for the pie:
3/4 cup granulated sugar
1 tsp ground cinnamon
1/2 tsp salt
1/2 tsp ground ginger
1/4 tsp ground cloves
2 large eggs
1 can (15 oz) Pumpkin Puree
1 can (12 fl. oz) Evaporated Milk
1 unbaked 9 inch pie deep dish pie shell
whipped cream (optional)

Mix sugar, cinnamon, salt, ginger, and cloves in a small bowl. Beat eggs in large bowl. Stir in pumpkin and sugar-spice mixture. Gradually stir in evaporated milk.

Pour into pie shell.

Bake in preheated oven at 425 degrees F for 15 minutes. Reduce temperature to 350 degrees F; bake for 40 to 50 minutes or until knife inserted near the center comes out clean. Cool on wire rack for 2 hours. Serve immediately or refrigerate. Top with whipped cream before serving.

Monday, December 29, 2008

New Year's Eve Treat: Homemade Eggnog

To make one quart of Eggnog:

3 eggs
1/2 cup sugar
2 Cups whole milk preferably with cream
1 1/2 tsp vanilla
1/8 tsp nutmeg
1/2 tsp guar gum (optional--helps it to thicken)

Mix all ingredients in a blender and store over night in a covered 1 quart glass jar. The ingredients may separate over night. Just shake it up before serving.

Marsha's Musings: On Hallowing One's Dimishments

I get a magazine called "Neurology Now". The last article of the current magazine had a piece in it written by a lady who has MS. She referred to a small booklet by John Yungblut entitled "On Hallowing One's Dimishments". It intrigued me, so I did a web search on this and found a sermon by a Quaker on the same subject. Here is what I find:



The book "On Hallowing One's Dimishments"...uses the word dimishments to describe any of the ugly and painful experiences we all have...The word "hallowing" means to regard something as holy...it also means to regard it as a trusted companion....

Hallowing means: make holy or set apart for holy use, consecrate; to respect greatly; venerate.

"It was a new and most encouraging idea to me." Yungblut writes, "That one's dimishments could be 'made holy', 'consecrated', 'respected greatly', even venerated."

This dovetails nicely with what I had been reading a couple weeks ago about being a good steward of the circumstances we find ourselves in whether they be good or bad from our perspective. When we accept stewardship of our circumstances, we in effect are accepting them as from the hand of God and that in itself makes them holy. When we realize this it will completely change how we view those things that come into our lives that are from our perspective negative or bad.

I know writing it is easy, but when you are in the middle of a bad circumstance or you deal with ongoing health issues or pain, remembering this is quite another. However, I have found that when I try to think of my circumstances as being from the hand of God to accomplish a specific purpose in my life or the lives of others, then I have moved from simply enduring them to taking stewardship of them and hallowing them.

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Masrha's Musings: Seizing the Moment

We came home from Christmas with my family on Friday morning. I was exhausted from helping my dad chisel 3 inch thick slabs of ice off his porch where the water had dripped down the side of his double-wide and frozen. I was in pain from the ride home because my rib is either separated or broken and riding in the car for an hour and a half hurts. I was also tense from the drive home through snow and dense fog. So when we arrived home, taking my kids sledding was not really what I wanted on my afternoon agenda. But the Lord was nudging me to just go do it anyway. They had been sick before vacation and couldn't go out and at my parent's house there is no place to sled. So I sucked it in and took them. We found a new hill just five minutes from home that a friend had told me about. They had the time of their lives.

I am so glad I took them when I did because the next day a south wind and rain came and took all the snow away and my son had come down sick. Before the day was over, I was sick too, and missed church today. Seize the moment with your kids as you do not know what a day may bring forth.

Devotional: Stewardship

Philippians 4:11 Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.

In reading the book, "Respectable Sins" by Jerry Bridges, he ends the chapter on discontentment with this statement:

May all of us, with the help of the Holy Spirit, move from negative attitudes of discontentment to a positive attitude of being stewards of the difficult and disappointing circumstances God has given us so that we may somehow glorify Him in all of life.


This statement is pregnant with meaning. I am just as guilty as the next person of having a bad attitude when things don't go my way. But take a look at this statement with me. Jerry talks about difficult and disappointing circumstances as being given to us by God! Think about that for a minute. We thank God for the good things He gives us and the good things He does for us. But what about the difficulties of life? Where do those come from? I grew up thinking the good came from God and the bad came from the Devil. The Devil got blamed for an awful lot! Take a look at this verse:

Amos 3:6 Shall a trumpet be blown in the city, and the people not be afraid? shall there be evil in a city, and the LORD hath not done it?


Job said, "Naked came I out of my mother's womb, and naked shall I return thither: the LORD gave, and the LORD hath taken away; blessed be the name of the LORD." He said this after all his children had died.

So, we see that God is sovereign over all. He is the giver of the good and the giver of the bad in life. Sometimes Satan has a hand in the bad that happens, but only in so much as God gives him leash to do it. God is still in control.

If God is the One who ultimately plans out our lives (Psalm 139:16) and He is the one who gives us stewardship over what He has given us, then it stands to reason that we are to be good stewards of the difficult circumstances that He allows to come into our lives. One way of exercising good stewardship over these things is by having an attitude of contentment and thankfulness. An attitude that says like Paul, "I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content."


Sunday, December 21, 2008

Taking Some Time Off

With the holidays upon us this week, I have decided to take the week off and not post any new blog posts this week. I hope you all have a blessed and Merry Christmas! See again next week!

Devotional: Lights and Gifts

James 1:17 Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.

As we approach the Christmas season, our thoughts turn toward gifts. Buying gifts, wrapping gifts, giving gifts, mailing gifts, and gift exchanges. Sometimes we might receive a gift that, well, it wasn't exactly what we wanted, and so we take it back to the store for an exchange or a refund. The gift giver meant well, but maybe didn't exactly know what your tastes were. Have you ever done that?

The Bible tells us that every good and every perfect gift is from the Father of lights. When I think of the Father of lights, I can't help but look at my Christmas tree all decked out in lights. I realize this is stretching it a bit, but I think we would do well, to think about our Father in heaven when we look at the lights of the Christmas season.

God only gives good and perfect gifts. If you have difficulties in your life, you may well be saying, "I'm not so sure about that!" God only gives us what He deems is best for us spiritually and that which will make us grow in the graces He desires to develop in our lives. Sometimes this includes difficulties.

Think of Jesus. He had to suffer and die to accomplish salvation for us. Now we know He did not have to go through difficulties in this life to grow in spiritual graces...He was the perfect God-man. But I point out that even He endured intense suffering and death to bring us salvation. Should we expect to be able to develop the spiritual graces God wants in us by floating through life on beds of ease?

So, this Christmas, look at the lights on your tree and remember that the Father of lights has your best interest in mind with the gifts that He bestows on you, even if those gifts come wrapped in the paper of difficult circumstances.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Frugal Friday

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Snow!

All around us people are saying they are getting buried in snow, but until this morning, we didn't have enough to measure. Now we have maybe an inch and a half. My sister sent photos. She lives an hour and a half away...they have at least 17 inches!

My husband's co-worker is snowed in and has to get in and out of her place with the help of a snow plow and she lives 30 minutes from us.

It's amazing how the weather is so hit and miss. Misses us most the time and hits everyone else.

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Declutter Report: Family Room

Today I found the surfaces of two folding tables, and folded them up and put them away so they don't get piled again. I also put two folding chairs away and a third chair needs fixing, so it went to the garage. You get poked with screws when you sit on it and it tears your clothes up. Time to fix it or pitch it!

Goal: To get this room in decent condition so my daughter can have her 16th birthday party in there. That happens about 15 day after Christmas.

Question: What is the purpose of man?

Just curious to know what you think on this question! Just post your answers in the comment section.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

AllExperts.com Question & Answer

Subject: physical pain

Question: Hi. In the Bible it says how God will not let us go through something we cannot
cope with. Does this apply to physical pain, too, please?

Answer: I am not aware of any scripture passage that says God will not give us more than we can bear in terms of pain, physical illness, or bad circumstances. However, one verse that is frequently sited is:


1 Corinthians 10:13 No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.


If you read the verses before and after this verse, you will find the context is not speaking of trials in the sense of pain, illness or bad circumstances, but rather it is talking about temptation to do evil. It is written in the context of fleeing idolatry.


We do find comfort, though, in the passage I have sited below:


2 Corinthians 12:7 And lest I should be exalted above measure through the abundance of the revelations, there was given to me a thorn in the flesh, the messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I should be exalted above measure.
8 For this thing I besought the Lord thrice, that it might depart from me.
9 And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
10 Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong.


While God doesn't promise the pain or physical ailment will not be more than we can handle, He does promise grace to persevere and endure it. However, this comes with a responsibility on our part. We must actively be in God's Word daily, searching the scriptures for His comfort and direction and we must constantly lean on Him and trust Him to give the grace we need to persevere. I recently read in Jerry Bridges book, "Respectable Sins" that we need to constantly seek God's face for help in being good stewards of the difficult circumstances He has allowed in our lives. Here is the quote: "May all of us, with the help of the Holy Spirit, move from negative attitudes of discontentment to a positive attitude of being stewards of the difficult and disappointing circumstances God has given us so that we may somehow glorify Him in all of life." AS we seek to honor God in our pain, He will give us the grace we need to endure it.


I am not advocating the refusal of pain medications here. If you are in severe pain, by all means do go to a doctor and get appropriate pain medication to help control it. We must do what we can to help alleviate the problem of pain, while at the same time having a mind set that seeks to honor God in our pain. I pray that you will find relief if that is God's will and that you find His grace sufficient to carry you through. From one fellow-sufferer to another, Marsha

Monday, December 15, 2008

Homeschool: Freebie Download

Click on the link above to go to a page where you can download a free report called, "The Secret to Homeshooling Freedom". Now the title might mislead you a bit. It's not about freedom in the sense of legally. It's about freedom in the sense of teaching your kids to be self-learners and thus freeing you up to make use of your time in other ways. I read the condensed article versions in the magazine and it makes good sense. I am slowly working toward this end and am happy to report that I have made quit a bit of progress in getting my son to work independently. It's a great read. Enjoy!

Declutter Report! 6 Bags/Boxes loaded in the trunk!

I didn't declutter anything last week because I was sick. But today I loaded six bags/boxes from my Family room into the trunk of the car to take to Good Will tomorrow! Boy, that feels good!
I have another Rubbermaid full of stuff I plan to let a friend go through first to see if she can use any for her kids.
It feels so good to make progress again!

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Devotional: The Good Keeps Us From God's Best

Galatians 5:24 And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.

After I wrote the last devotional on "Getting Rid of the Good in Favor of the Best", one of my readers sent me an email saying that "now I had gone from preaching to meddlin' "! I wrote back to say that the Word of God meddles often with me. So along those lines, it looks like more meddlin' is on the way.

The other night as I was heading to bed I picked up "My Utmost for His Highest", a devotional by Oswald Chambers and read the devotional for that day. I was surprised to read what it said.

It is the things that are right and noble and good from the natural standpoint that keep us back from God's best...Very few of us debate with the sordid and evil and wrong, but we do debate with the good. It is the good that hates the best and the higher up you get in the scale of the natural virtues, the more intense is the opposition to Jesus Christ...Jesus said, "If any man will be My disciple, let him deny himself.."

Once again, this is hitting me in the realm of my possessions and the clutter I keep. Am I willing to deny myself of the good (my treasures that clutter my life) in order to achieve my best for God? Last time I looked at how my clutter diminishes my effectiveness in serving God as I ought and how I can't be a good steward of my time and resources if I am living in clutter. Have I crucified my flesh with the affections and lusts? Here again I am being reminded of this very thing. This is just an example of how God's Word is alive and speaks to where we are. It is also example of how God confirms to our hearts that what we have discovered before is indeed something He wants us to learn.

So, what area is God pointing out to you in your life where you need to give up the good to achieve His best? Think about it.

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Marsha's Musings: Stewardship

Ok, I've heard of being a good steward of my time, talents, resources, money etc. but this is a whole new idea to me...being a good steward of the difficult circumstances God allows into my life. This is a whole new concept for me. I read about this in the books Respectable Sins by Jerry Bridges.

It puts a whole new perspective on the importance of responding to difficulties in a godly manner. As I think of being a good steward of my difficult circumstances, I think of Joni Earickson-Tada. She is paralyzed from the shoulders down due to a diving accident. As a result of her injury and disability, she has written numerous inspirational books, is an accomplished artist (she holds her brush/pens/pencils in her mouth), she has her own daily Christian radio program, and she runs a non-profit organization that takes old wheel chairs, refurbishes them and then donates them to people in need in third world countries. Now that is being a good steward of difficult circumstances! What's my excuse? I have none.

Friday, December 12, 2008

Frugal Friday Tips

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Do you have a Dollar Store near you? You might be surprised at some of the treasures you can find there! Recently, I picked up a music CD that came with a magazine for $1. It was 74 minutes worth of beautiful piano music by Chopin and the magazine was all about his life and music and a little history about the piano. I bought three of them so I could give a couple as gifts. What a great gift for only a buck!

When I had to travel with my husband last month, I was looking for ways to pass the time and found a dollar store there. I was pleasantly surprised to find gluten free cookies. Two dozen for a dollar! I bought a couple boxes, went out to the car and tried them. They were so yummy I went back in and nearly cleaned them out.

Also, at that same store I found 15 postal service note cards that were replicas of the love stamp they had for a while that had the two swans facing each other, making the heart shape. Once again, only a dollar. What bargain.

I love pugs and found some other note cards last week, 10 for a dollar that have a picture of a pug smoking a cigar and driving a taxi...it's really cute. They will make fun thank you notes for after Christmas for my family.

The sad thing with the dollar store, though, is you never know what they will have and chances are the item you bought last time won't be there again next time.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Marsha's Musings: Comfort for Uncertain Times

I read this in my devotion time recently. This is very comforting to me and goes along with the study I doing with the ladies from church this week on anxiety, frustration and disappointment. God is involved in every part of our lives, so if we are anxious, we are fearful of God's Providence and not trusting Him. If we are frustrated, we are angry about God's Providence in our lives and if we are disappointed, then we are not content with God's Providence in our lives. But this scripture tells us He is intimately involved in every part of our lives and He is present there with us. He would not allow hard Providences into our lives if He didn't have a good purpose in mind for them to accomplish. Romans 8:28 tells us this. So we can take comfort in His presence even in the difficulties of life and know that He is in control of all of it.


Psalm 139:7 ¶ Whither shall I go from thy spirit? or whither shall I flee from thy presence? 8 If I ascend up into heaven, thou art there: if I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there. 9 If I take the wings of the morning, and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea; 10 Even there shall thy hand lead me, and thy right hand shall hold me. 11 If I say, Surely the darkness shall cover me; even the night shall be light about me. 12 Yea, the darkness hideth not from thee; but the night shineth as the day: the darkness and the light are both alike to thee.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Marsha's Musings: Christmas Cards

Those of you who deal with chronic pain issues will relate to this. In years past I have just wanted to get all my Christmas cards addressed, signed and out of my hair, so I have sat down and done them all at once or maybe in two sittings. My goal has always been to have them in the mail the weekend of Thanksgiving. Then I have paid in terms of neck/shoulder pain and writer's cramps.

This year, I decided to lower my standards a bit. I am not stressing over my cards. I didn't even start working on them until Dec. 5. I have decided I am only going to do 5 cards a day so I don't have to deal with the pain from taking on too much at once.

So here it is the 10th of December and I am only half way through my cards. Big deal. They will get sent eventually even if some of them don't arrive until after Christmas! The recipients will still enjoy getting the card and letter in the mail not matter what time it arrives! Why add stress to the holidays by putting unnecessary deadlines on myself?

Tuesday, December 09, 2008

Respectable Sins: Anxiety, Frustration,

I am preparing my lesson for our Women's book study in Jerry Bridges' Respectable Sins book. This one hits home. I am dealing with a bit of anxiety at the moment. On Thursday we have a work related trip out of town with my husband. I need to find something to keep the kids entertained for the 5 hours we are there. We have no building to hang out in because this meeting is in a restaraunt. I doubt they would like us loitering all day there. So I am looking at Google maps to see what it would take to find the mall there. I am having a bit of anxiety thinking of the traffic patterns I will have to navigate myself through to get to the mall and back. It is unfamiliar territory to me and scares me silly to look at the maps and the directions. Am I being unreasonable? Is this sin that I am getting knot in my stomach thinking about driving that? I am struggling here with this a bit.

Marsha's Musings: Here I Sit

Here I sit, sick again. This time it's not just sinus junk and feeling bad, this time it's in my chest with a deep cough. My daughter is sick too. My son is walking around the house with a container of disinfectant wipes in hand, wiping down anything he plans to touch and scurrying to stay three feet away from me as if I have leprosy or something. But, he is not sick yet. So maybe he is on to something here.

I am wrapped up in a blanket with heat packs on and a humidifier spewing mist over me, the lap top on my lap and Quartto Geletto playing on the DVD player. Apple cider Vinegar water sits next to me as well as Echinacea lozenges. I think I am all settled in for some time on the couch...I also have a stack of Cosby DVD's, Agent Cody Banks 2 movie and a Ken Davis comedy DVD. I even have the phone here so I don't have to get up to answer it! The only thing I need to get up for is to change the DVD, make lunch and use the bathroom.

Last night I did my study for the women's book study at church. It's tomorrow night, but I doubt I'll be able to attend. But it was an appropriate study for me. Jerry Bridges in his book, Respectable Sins, talks about anxiety, frustration and discontent. It was good that I did this study just before getting sick. It has given me new perspective on difficult circumstances. He points out Psalm 139:16 which says,
"Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, The days fashioned for me, When as yet there were none of them." (NKJV)

Jerry Bridges points out that God preordained my days before they even started. He knows all about me and He knows the plans He has for me each day. It is tempting for me to get upset and frustrated about the fact that each time I have set about to get my house in order, I have either gotten sick or ended up "wasting" time at therapy or chiropractic for my neck/upper back. But as I read what Jerry Bridges says and what the Bible says about God planning my days out ahead of me, it changes the way I look at being sick right now and all that is not getting accomplished around the house like I had planned. Obviously, God has other plans in mind for me that are different than my plans right now.

Monday, December 08, 2008

Marsha's Musings: Paper Piles

Are you a piler? I am.
If I file it in a folder...out of sight, out of mind.
So I tend to pile. Well, at least it's in a pile in a basket. But none the less, it is a pile that I have to pick through.
So, I have decided to try something different. I have a three tiered basket holder that I cleaned out last night (had stuff in there from 1995!). In the top basket I plan to put bills when they come. In the second basket, my receipts I need to record, and in the third basket, mail to answer or that needs other actions done with it. Then I have a flat basket that I will put things in that need to be filed.
I hope this new system will work. My stuff is still pretty visible...so it won't be out of sight out of mind. Just maybe....just maybe this will work for me.

Sunday, December 07, 2008

Devotional: Getting Rid of the Good in Favor of the Best

Hebrews 11:24 By faith Moses, when he became of age, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh's daughter, 25 choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God than to enjoy the passing pleasures of sin, 26 esteeming the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures in Egypt; for he looked to the reward.

As I apply this verse to my life, I see it has many applications. Of course there is the obvious application. We must choose to suffer rather than succumb to the temptations of sin and we must keep the reward God offers in our sights at all times.

This verse has a more practical meaning for me. Often, I collect and hoard things that are good (the treasures of Egypt) and these things work to my detriment because I don't have places for all of them in my home. The result is clutter and disorganization. I must choose to suffer by getting rid of these precious treasures in order to achieve a home and workspace that is free of clutter and disorganization.

I can not be effective in my service to God and my family if I am living in clutter and disorganization. I can't be a good steward of my resources if I can't find them and have to buy replacements. I can't obey God's command to be hospitable if I am too embarrassed to invite guests over. My family suffers when I am not able to find things and I get cranky because of the confusion and mess. I suffer because it saps my energy and strength.

I need to keep my eyes on the reward of being able to have a clutter free home and know where things are kept, I need to keep my eyes on the reward of God's approval and the reward of being able to be a more effective servant and steward of His resources.

So as I begin (again...) to try to get a handle on the clutter and disorganization in my life I need to ask myself these questions about the things I have:



  • Ask do I absolutely need it? Do I love it? Do I use it?
  • Do I have unrealistic expectations on how much I can do at one time? Can I declutter even one item today and feel accomplished?
  • Will this item help me serve God and my family better?
  • Do I have a place for this item?
  • Is this item a duplicate of another?
  • Have I used this item in the past year?

Depending on your answers to these questions, the items in question may be just the "treasures of Egypt" and need to be purged from your life.

Another application of this verse can be in relation to our activities outside of our relationship to God/spouse/mothering/fathering/household duties. What activities do you do regularly that interfere with God's best for your relation to Him, your family and yourself? Many of these are good things, maybe even church related, but if they are diminishing your personal relationship to God, spouse and family then you need to rethink if they need to be things you should be doing. Sometimes you can still be involved in these things but on a more limited basis so it doesn't interfere with your relationship to God, family and yourself.
This is an area I struggle with, but with God's help and perseverance, I plan to work on this more.

Saturday, December 06, 2008

Marsha's Musings: Lists

Are you a list maker? I am .
Do you ever find yourself working through your day and you do somethings that is not on your list, so you write them down on your list and then cross them off just so you can have the satisfaction of looking at your list at the end of the day and feeling like you accomplished a lot...even though the things you accomplished were not on your list to begin with? I have to admit, I do this.

What happens when you lose your list for the day? I go crazy until I can find my list again because I don't know what I am supposed to do next without my list! It's like my brains have been lost!

Friday, December 05, 2008

Marsha's Musings: What is a Reformed Baptist Church?

Sunday, our pastor gave a good definition of what a reformed Baptist church is. I like this:

"A reformed Baptist church is a church where the members are constantly seeking to reform their lives to the Word of God."

Frugal Friday: The Gift Closet

It's Frugal Friday!
If you would like some frugal tips click on the icon above. It will take you to a website dedicated to Frugal Tips.

My Frugal Friday tip of the week regards the Gift Closet. Each year after Christmas we go to town and look for the after Christmas sales. Later we look for the inventory reduction sales before tax time and again late spring we find some places are having big spring cleaning sales. I take a list, usually in my head, but probably should take it on paper of who I need to buy gifts for in the coming year and start shopping for those at these sales. I bring all my treasures home and make a list of what I got and who I plan to give it to and put it all in my closet in a box.

When Christmas or birthday rolls around I go to my "Gift Closet" to see what I have there before I shop for anything. Many times I already have something that I purchased at a sale that was able to get dirt cheap.

This accomplishes two things:

  • You aren't caught at the last minute with nothing to give and having to stress out about what to buy.
  • You have been able to buy a nice item at a fraction of the original cost, saving your budget.


Marsha's Musings: Hair-Less

For those of you who didn't know it, my profile photo on this blog was quite old. My hair was down the middle of my back until Wednesday night. I had been growing it out for the past two years. I had had a bad haircut the last time and was not wanting to take the chance again, so I just didn't bother to get my hair cut. Then I discovered how much money it saved not getting it cut, so then I really didn't want to get it cut. However, it has been hard on my neck/shoulders (the weight) and on my arms because of having to comb all the tangles out every day. So Wednesday, I measured it and decided I had enough to donate to Locks of Love for making wigs for cancer patients. I bit the bullet and did it. I can't believe how light my head feels now. Well, I guess I should update my profile photo now. I'll have to see if I can crop this one.
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Thursday, December 04, 2008

Marsha's Musings: Separation of Church and State

We watched a video on the American Revolution. I found it interesting to note that our founding fathers based our whole beginnings as a nation around the principles of the Bible and a Christian foundation.

We hear the cry, "Separation of church and state!" so much these days as the basis to take God out of the schools, prayer out of the schools, the ten commandments out of our courts etc. What a bunch of hog wash!

Our founding fathers never meant that statement to mean that God and prayer has no place in our government. They were separating themselves from British rule because they wanted freedom from a state run church! They did not want to be forced to have to belong to a church that was run by the government.

What they did want was a government that respected the principles of the Bible and Christianity. They wanted a government that would submit itself to the guidance of the Word of God and a nation that would do the same. Now that is a far cry from the "separation of church and state" that is pushed now.

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Marsha's Musings: Headache/Neck/Shoulder Issues Again

Well, this the week for physical therapy and chiropractic for me. I was feeling good that I had not needed to go for three weeks. It was saving us money. But lately I have been waking up with headaches more frequently than what I care for.

Monday I saw my PT for a treatment. He found several painful knots in my should blade areas and in my shoulders. When he hit on one, I said it felt like there was a marble there. He said,"That's not a marble. It's a big knot."

Today I saw my chiropractor. She said that when you wake up with a headache it is usually an issue in the atlas...the very top of the spine where it connects to the head. So she set about to make adjustments. My goodness! She was hitting on some very tender points. I was told to go home and put ice on my neck.

Tomorrow I will go back to physical therapy in hopes of getting more knots loosened up so that maybe I won't have a repeat with the headaches.

I am constantly reminded of the verse in the Bible that says we should say, "If the Lord wills we will do this or that..." (my paraphrase if it isn't just right) When I wake up at 4 or 5 in the morning with a banging headache...I know that maybe the Lord has other plans in mind for that day besides the ones I had laid out. But He is always good...even when I have trouble seeing His goodness, He is good. He teaches me the fruit of the Spirit through the tough times.

Declutter Report: Small Table w/ drawer

Today I decluttered the small table by the loveseat. The drawer had four lint rollers in it that belonged elsewhere. A picture from the Incredibles that my son had forgetten he even had, some misc. items that are going to the Good Will and some furniture coasters that should have been under the legs of some furniture.
on the shelf on the bottom was a stack of art books and colored pencils from an abandoned art curriculum that was beneath my daughter and over the heads of my son and I. I blew the dust off those and took them to the basement. I'll make a decision on what to do with the books later.
I feel good...I am making progress, allbeit slow. But I have a sign on my fridge that says "It doesn't matter how slow you go just so long as you don't quit."

Marsha's Musings: Time Management Tips

I am on a quest to learn how to accomplish more and be more organized. As part of this quest, I took part in a web/phone conference put on by Marcia Francois of Take Charge Solutions. Here are some of her main points:
  1. Make a choice about how you want to spend your time. You are in control of your time. When you say yes to one thing you are saying no to another. What's your time worth? If you do not work outside the home, then figure out what you time is worth on an hourly wage and then think about how you are spending it. Are you just wasting it?
  2. Prioritize. 80% of your accomplishments are done from 20% of your effort. You will want to prioritize and choose your tasks wisely. Two tasks will be big important tasks and the rest will be busy work.
  3. Learn to say no! We have physical boundaries. We also need emotional boundaries. If you don't have strong emotional boundaries you will begin to take on other people's stuff. You know your emotional boundaries are weak when you start to get knots in your stomach, feel anger, resentment etc. It means your boundaries have been over-stepped. We must know when to say no! Ask yourself why you are feeling the way you are. Either you need to change your attitude or you need to say no. What are you saying yes to that you should be saying no to?
  4. Write it down. Always keep a note book with you. If you write it down you don't have to remember it. Just look at your notes. Make a to do list.
  5. Group Tasks/Preparation Times. Find ways to group similar tasks. If you have phone calls to make, sit down and make them all at once. If you have emails to answer, save them up and do them all at one time. If you have bills to pay, pick a certain day and do them all at once. If you have vegetables to chop for different meals, chop them all at once instead of for each meal when it comes around. This saves you time...you only have to get your supplies out once or get yourself in the frame of mind once, rather than several times during the week. Focus...don't multi-task! Muli-tasking actually takes more time because you are not focusing. Therefore you tend to not do a really good job on anything you are doing and have to either correct mistakes or you have to go slower. Only Multi-task on chores that you can do by rote, that don't take any thinking to do.

Other Tips:

  • Use a kitchen timer to motivate you. Set it for 15 minutes and work at a task for just that long. You'll be surprised at how much you get done and may be motivated to set it for another 15 minutes to get more done.
  • Don't say I can't...instead say, "How can I...? This gives you the frame of mind to figure out a solution.
  • Prioritize time for yourself like you would a dental appointment. Set up tea with a friend. Go antiquiing. Scrapbook...whatever you enjoy, but make an appointment for yourself to do it and guard it like you would a dentist appointment.

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

Declutter Report: End Table Cupboard #1

Today I pulled out the books that were inside the end table. Most of them were children's books way below my teen-ager's level! Berenstien Bears and the Messy Room was among them. How I relate. It's a "case of messy build-up"! That's what has happened to my whole house! Messy Build-up!

I took a whole stack of books to the basement to donate or give away. But there were certain ones I am still not willing to part with.

  1. Frog and Toad--can't part with that...Toad makes to-do lists and when he does something that is not on the list, he writes it on and crosses it off. When his list blows away and is lost, he can't do anything because he doesn't know what to do without his list and he can't go looking for the list because that wasn't on his list! I identify with Toad! Have to keep that book.
  2. My collection of "Moose" books. My nick-name is Moose, so I have to keep those.
  3. The Messy Room--mentioned above...just to remind me of why my house gets so messy.

What did you declutter today?

What Kids Eat Affect Their Behavior!!!

Why Schools Should Remove Gene-Altered Foods from Their Cafeterias

By Jeffrey M. Smith Comanche County Chronicle, Elgin, OK, September, 2008 Straight to the Source

from Institute for Responsible Technology, Spilling the Beans newsletter on GM Foodsby Jeffrey M. Smith, author of Seeds of Deception

Before the Appleton Wisconsin high school replaced their cafeteria's processed foods with wholesome, nutritious food, the school was described as out-of-control. There were weapons violations, student disruptions, and a cop on duty full-time. After the change in school meals, the students were calm, focused, and orderly. There were no more weapons violations, and no suicides, expulsions, dropouts, or drug violations. The new diet and improved behavior has lasted for seven years, and now other schools are changing their meal programs with similar results.

Years ago, a science class at Appleton found support for their new diet by conducting a cruel and unusual experiment with three mice. They fed them the junk food that kids in other high schools eat everyday. The mice freaked out. Their behavior was totally different than the three mice in the neighboring cage. The neighboring mice had good karma; they were fed nutritious whole foods and behaved like mice. They slept during the day inside their cardboard tube, played with each other, and acted very mouse-like.

The junk food mice, on the other hand, destroyed their cardboard tube, were no longer nocturnal, stopped playing with each other, fought often, and two mice eventually killed the third and ate it. After the three month experiment, the students rehabilitated the two surviving junk food mice with a diet of whole foods. After about three weeks, the mice came around.

Sister Luigi Frigo repeats this experiment every year in her second grade class in Cudahy, Wisconsin, but mercifully, for only four days. Even on the first day of junk food, the mice's behavior "changes drastically." They become lazy, antisocial, and nervous. And it still takes the mice about two to three weeks on unprocessed foods to return to normal. One year, the second graders tried to do the experiment again a few months later with the same mice, but this time the animals refused to eat the junk food.

Across the ocean in Holland, a student fed one group of mice genetically modified (GM) corn and soy, and another group the non-GM variety. The GM mice stopped playing with each other and withdrew into their own parts of the cage. When the student tried to pick them up, unlike their well-behaved neighbors, the GM mice scampered around in apparent fear and tried to climb the walls. One mouse in the GM group was found dead at the end of the experiment.

It's interesting to note that the junk food fed to the mice in the Wisconsin experiments also contained genetically modified ingredients. And although the Appleton school lunch program did not specifically attempt to remove GM foods, it happened anyway. That's because GM foods such as soy and corn and their derivatives are largely found in processed foods. So when the school switched to unprocessed alternatives, almost all ingredients derived from GM crops were taken out automatically.

Does this mean that GM foods negatively affect the behavior of humans or animals? It would certainly be irresponsible to say so on the basis of a single student mice experiment and the results at Appleton. On the other hand, it is equally irresponsible to say that it doesn't.

We are just beginning to understand the influence of food on behavior. A study in Science in December 2002 concluded that "food molecules act like hormones, regulating body functioning and triggering cell division. The molecules can cause mental imbalances ranging from attention-deficit and hyperactivity disorder to serious mental illness." The problem is we do not know which food molecules have what effect.

The bigger problem is that the composition of GM foods can change radically without our knowledge. Genetically modified foods have genes inserted into their DNA. But genes are not Legos; they don't just snap into place. Gene insertion creates unpredicted, irreversible changes. In one study, for example, a gene chip monitored the DNA before and after a single foreign gene was inserted. As much as 5 percent of the DNA's genes changed the amount of protein they were producing. Not only is that huge in itself, but these changes can multiply through complex interactions down the line.

In spite of the potential for dramatic changes in the composition of GM foods, they are typically measured for only a small number of known nutrient levels. But even if we could identify all the changed compounds, at this point we wouldn't know which might be responsible for the antisocial nature of mice or humans. Likewise, we are only beginning to identify the medicinal compounds in food. We now know, for example, that the pigment in blueberries may revive the brain's neural communication system, and the antioxidant found in grape skins may fight cancer and reduce heart disease. But what about other valuable compounds we don't know about that might change or disappear in GM varieties?

Consider GM soy. In July 1999, years after it was on the market, independent researchers published a study showing that it contains 12-14 percent less cancer-fighting phytoestrogens. What else has changed that we don't know about? [Monsanto responded with its own study, which concluded that soy's phytoestrogen levels vary too much to even carry out a statistical analysis. They failed to disclose, however, that the laboratory that conducted Monsanto's experiment had been instructed to use an obsolete method to detect phytoestrogens results.]

In 1996, Monsanto published a paper in the Journal of Nutrition that concluded in the title, "The composition of glyphosate-tolerant soybean seeds is equivalent to that of conventional soybeans." The study only compared a small number of nutrients and a close look at their charts revealed significant differences in the fat, ash, and carbohydrate content. In addition, GM soy meal contained 27 percent more trypsin inhibitor, a well-known soy allergen. The study also used questionable methods. Nutrient comparisons are routinely conducted on plants grown in identical conditions so that variables such as weather and soil can be ruled out. Otherwise, differences in plant composition could be easily missed. In Monsanto's study, soybeans were planted in widely varying climates and geography.

Although one of their trials was a side-by-side comparison between GM and non-GM soy, for some reason the results were left out of the paper altogether. Years later, a medical writer found the missing data in the archives of the Journal of Nutrition and made them public. No wonder the scientists left them out. The GM soy showed significantly lower levels of protein, a fatty acid, and phenylalanine, an essential amino acid. Also, toasted GM soy meal contained nearly twice the amount of a lectin that may block the body's ability to assimilate other nutrients. Furthermore, the toasted GM soy contained as much as seven times the amount of trypsin inhibitor, indicating that the allergen may survive cooking more in the GM variety. (This might explain the 50 percent jump in soy allergies in the UK, just after GM soy was introduced.)

We don't know all the changes that occur with genetic engineering, but certainly GM crops are not the same. Ask the animals. Eyewitness reports from all over North America describe how several types of animals, when given a choice, avoided eating GM food. These included cows, pigs, elk, deer, raccoons, squirrels, rats, and mice. In fact, the Dutch student mentioned above first determined that his mice had a two-to-one preference for non-GM before forcing half of them to eat only the engineered variety.

Differences in GM food will likely have a much larger impact on children. They are three to four times more susceptible to allergies. Also, they convert more of the food into body-building material. Altered nutrients or added toxins can result in developmental problems. For this reason, animal nutrition studies are typically conducted on young, developing animals. After the feeding trial, organs are weighed and often studied under magnification. If scientists used mature animals instead of young ones, even severe nutritional problems might not be detected. The Monsanto study used mature animals instead of young ones.

They also diluted their GM soy with non-GM protein 10- or 12­fold before feeding the animals. And they never weighed the organs or examined them under a microscope. The study, which is the only major animal feeding study on GM soy ever published, is dismissed by critics as rigged to avoid finding problems.

Unfortunately, there is a much bigger experiment going on one which we are all a part of. We're being fed GM foods daily, without knowing the impact of these foods on our health, our behavior, or our children. Thousands of schools around the world, particularly in Europe, have decided not to let their kids be used as guinea pigs. They have banned GM foods.

The impact of changes in the composition of GM foods is only one of several reasons why these foods may be dangerous. Other reasons may be far worse (see http://www.seedsofdeception.com/).

With the epidemic of obesity and diabetes and with the results in Appleton, parents and schools are waking up to the critical role that diet plays. When making changes in what kids eat, removing GM foods should be a priority.

Monday, December 01, 2008

Marsha Musings: How do You Celebrate the Holidays?

It's the first of December ...how do you celebrate through the coming month? Do you do anything special? What traditions do you keep?

Our children always put up the Christmas tree the weekend after Thanksgiving. They are working on it right now. It's been fun the past hour listening to them work together on it. In year's past they used to fight over who got to put the top on and who got to put on what ornaments. I wondered when they would ever get past that. Well, this looks to be the year. They have been having alot of fun tonight, working together on it, taking pictures of each other in silly poses while they are decorating. I've enjoyed listening to them.

For the last two years, we have incorporated a new holiday tradition. We take a bag of groceries for each of us and donate at the local Hell's Canyon Jet Boat Tour office where they issue each donor a ticket for the Christmas Jet Boat Tour on the river to see the Christmas lights along the river. This has been a fun activity where we get to help the needy of our community and have a fun boat ride too. They always decorate the boats with lights, serve hot chocolate and cookies on board and play Christmas music on the loud speakers. The boats hold about 50 people each and we spend about an hour out on the water. It's great fun.

Another tradition my daughter has enjoyed is helping the community decorate Locomotive Park for Christmas.

We usually drive to my family's for Christmas. It's an hour and a half drive from our place. We celebrate Christmas Eve with them and then come home Christmas Day to celebrate at home.
My dad always reads the Christmas story out of Luke before we open our gifts. It's a nice way to focus our attention on the real reason for the season.

During the month of December our kids open a little window on the advent calendar each day. Our advent calendar isn't exactly religious. It's a Lego advent calendar. But we read the Christmas story through out the month of December in our family devotion times.

Of course there are the usual flurry of Christmas parties to attend...usually one with our church, one with the homeschool group, one with the youth group, and my husband has one with his work.

So how do you celebrate?

Declutter Report: Coat Closet

Today my goal was to declutter and clean the coat closet.
I made my goal! I removed two boxes worth of coats, gloves, hats and other stuff that was either outgrown, were items that didn't belong there or trash that needed to be dumped. I vacuumed both the shelf and the floor and put the stuff back that belongs there. Wow, that feels good! I am looking forward to my next task tomorrow!

What did you declutter today?