
Here are some lessons that I've learned in the writing of Sufficient Grace for Home-school Moms, I have a long ways to go on these but this is what God is teaching me:
Plan flexibility into your school year
Be flexible with the curriculum--it's there to serve you...don't be a slave to it.
Be flexible with the schedule
Pray!
Pray your children's salvation
Pray about character issues
Pray for wisdom
Work on spiritual/character issues first, academics second
Cut off contention before it gets a good start.
Teach your kids by example to give glory to God and deflect it from themselves.
Be quick to confess your sins
Strive for patience and calmness in teaching
Take time out when starting to feel frustrated with your children. When calm come back and deal with the situation.
Spend time studying the Bible. Send you roots down deep so the tough times don't topple you over spiritually.
Do what you can no matter how small. Every little bit counts.
Schedule "Mom time"
Evaluate your priorities & revise if needed
Live with your eye on the goal--the high calling of God in Christ Jesus
Don't look around at your circumstances & allow them to distract you with fear
Don't compare your homeschool or your life with anyone else--it will only make you focus on your shortcomings or envy others and cause you to dispair
Watch your tongue--your family and others are listening and learning habits from you.
Keep your focus on Jesus
Remember the blessings of motherhood
Remember that the difficulties of raising, training and teaching your children may come with the reward of children who later bless you.
Look for the good things in your circumstances
Remember God will never leave you or forsake you
Cling to God in the storms of life
Be assured God has a good purpose for what He is allowing
Don't dwell on how big the task is--break it down into baby steps
Take one day at a time
Persevere through the tough times
God is accomplishing His good purposes
Thank God for the difficulties because they give you the opportunity to grow the fruit of the Spirit.
Exercise your faith even when God seems distant and silent
Take measures to manage stress in your life
Do not fret or become anxious over the stress--this only adds more stress
Let the difficulties drive you to God and His Word
Don't strain against the wind of adversity
Turn toward the wind of adversity and let it propel you forward toward Christ
Take time to relax
Depend on God and His grace
Remember that God is already in the future--He goes before you and has a good purpose for all that He allows.
Let the chaos that goes with home-schooling & raising a family remind you that God makes order out of what seems chaotic to us
Rejoice and look forward to the day when God will make all things perfect
Listen to uplifting music
Run your own race--not someone else's
Do what God has shown you to do
Don't try to live up to other's expectations
Say no if it isn't in keeping with the path God has put you on
Know your limits and live within them
See Christ in your circumstances instead of your circumstances
Don't push your kids so you can be proud & brag about what you have accomplished with them
Don't get so busy you neglect time with God
Be careful of complaining
When God sends a trial your way check to be sure it's not for correction due to some neglected area of your life.
Adjust your perception of success to match God's--truth, do justice, love mercy, walk humbly with God, keep God's word, don't deny His name, keep God's commands, persevere
Seek to do all to the glory of God
See complaining as disbelief
Give thanks in all circumstances
Find the positive in your circumstances and give thanks for it.
Ask God's guidance in what you should do each day
Realize you are not invincible--pace yourself
Write stuff down
Temper your temper
De-clutter your life
Get adequate rest, nourishment and water
Remember you are not alone
Be still before God
Find hidden blessings in the trash and other unpleasant tasks of your day
Set fewer goals
Work for 15 minutes then rest if you need too
Play praise music to help your frame of mind
Be responsible and teach your kids to be too
Work on organization
Be diligent--don't get sidetracked if possible
Watch for discontentment
Discipline your children consistently
Never take for granted what God has provided